Because your environment has changed. He no longer works in construction. For now the heights are not your environment. For him, the heights are abnormal now, when a decade ago were normal. The approach anxiety is a collection of anxieties. The fear of talking to strangers. Fear of interrupting people. The fear of running out of things to say.
The fear of looking dumb (social pressure). And the fear of success (one of my favorites). Talk to strangers talk to strangers is the most common. In our days of hunting and gathering this type of behavior they could do kill you. But we do not live in a tribal society, but our bodies do not understand that. Our biological programming remains the old days. Incyte may not feel the same.
If you talk to people every day, how do you expect to go and sarge in a bar? Your body will fight you. It will protect itself. Unless you learn to acclimate. Breaking habits requires at least 21 days to change or break a habit. this is true, it takes three weeks to overcome approach anxiety. Talking to strangers EVERYWHERE. That means on the bus, at the gas station, in line at the supermarket, on airplanes, at work, in restaurants, so talk to a new person every day. For such situations try to use the technique on openings. Understand that if you stop being a social being for a long period of time, the anxiety to approximate return. If the approaches to lunch on the street is an option, take a walk on your lunch hour. This will cause the bar sargeos more easy. Little by little is going to eliminate the anxiety of talking to strangers. Fear of interrupting people This is one characteristic of people, we are raised from birth to be polite. To be considerate of other's feelings. We are a society sensitive. We are also a weak society. The alpha male tends to consider others. But he does not hesitate to give people the gift of their reality. Why should you worry about interrupting people? Change the site with your target. If you were talking with friends and got a supermodel in lingerie garters and interrupted, would you be angry? Hell, no. I would not mind and was about to solve the problems of the world. Women are always receptive to her Prince Charming. Come, act relaxed and not worry about the conversation, joking with them. After coming to where you wanted to apologize for interrupting, and a stay away. They drag you back to them. These people lead a boring life. They wake up in bed bored, drive a boring car to his boring job, are bored with their friends and talk about how bored. You're not interrupting something important. Not in a bar, not on a bus and not a casino. It is your reality. Other walk alone in life, not you. Do you think this is all you need to learn? ! Nothing is more false than ESOA are viewing only the tip of the iceberg. Download and learn all the techniques, tricks and tips that you know to seduce a woman. Visit my